A personal anecdote illustrating how we often get in the way of our own experience.
Removing our filters allows for a present and real conscious experience to living life meaningfully.
Beginning Within - Rabbi Aryeh Weinstein
Change yourself. Influence others.
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It is tempting to settle for external freedom, changing our circumstances or the people around us. It won’t take long to realize that your new circumstances are another, perhaps improved, set of constrictions. When we learn to operate from our spirit, no matter the circumstances, we can always choose to bring our spirit into them. We define in place of being defined. We are liberated.
This talk was given as part of a larger program that you can watch here: https://beginningwithin.com/videos/fly-free/
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We all create stories about ourselves. We do this to create safety from the many things that threaten us. These stories keep us small. Liberating ourselves from these stories and venturing out beyond them is truly liberating. In this week’s podcast, I discuss how I do this for myself and how I’ve helped others do the same.
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What is the Jewish perspective on heaven and afterlife? What is heaven and do we all go there? What is hell? Is G-d vengeful? Gaining a healthy perspective on these subjects improves the way we live our lives.
Watch the below video and listen to the below class for further elaboration.
Conversation in the Womb Video
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If you’re apologizing because you feel bad, are uncomfortable or don’t want to be disliked, you haven’t apologized. It’s all about you. So when you show up to synagogue and want to experience true repentance, stop thinking about yourself and what you want and how you feel bad. Take a few minutes and think about G-d.
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Everything we experience in life offers us an opportunity to refine ourselves and become a better person. This is the reason G-d created an imperfect world with challenges and tests. Every test is an opportunity to raise ourselves higher. And it can’t be realized without us going through the process. Life is, after all, a workshop.
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Is your spouse like G-d? In more ways than you may want to admit. The correlations between your relationship with your spouse and your relationship with G-d are strikingly similar. This is because, at their core, they are both a relationship. There’s much we can learn from the correlations between the two. I share six points. Can you think of any more?
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We all know how difficult it is to exercise self-discipline. This is why when we are raised with discipline it makes it so much easier. Structure and limits become ingrained within us. When we raise our children without structure and limits, when we are a yes parent, we aren’t being nice. We are being very, very mean. Why? Our children will suffer greatly from this later in life. As difficult as it is for a parent to implement structure and limits, it’s far more difficult to later in life.
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To be able to acknowledge our wrongdoings is far better than denying them. You can only fix what you are willing to face. When we are denial, we leave ourselves little hope. This is why knowing the problem is half the solution. No one can be blamed for being imperfect, we all are. We can be blamed for not dealing with our imperfections.
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You own a car. You live in a nice home. You have a closet full of clothing. Are you too materialistic? If materialistic was defined by using material objects, yes, but this isn’t what makes someone materialistic. Materialistic is a shallow world view. It’s when we only value appreciate things and people for their material aspect without appreciating and engaging their deeper aspect and true value. Now ask yourself, are you materialistic?
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Your ugly character isn’t justified because you happen to have religion on your side. Values must not be compromised and nor should our attitudes toward others. Just because you’re right in principle doesn’t permit you to be wrong with your attitude. You’re not angry because you’re so righteous. You’re angry because of your arrogance. Never confuse the two!
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My senior colleague lost four of his eight children to Bloom syndrome. He said the following to a friend of mine, “There is a phrase that some people say when they feel that life is not fair. And that is, ‘Why is G-d picking on me?’ Yet, if you remove one word from that phrase, it changes everything.” Once you learn which word it is you’ll realize that he has mastered the art of acceptance and it makes all the difference. Without acceptance, you can never be free from the endless number of unwanted circumstances in your life.
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